Rest assured

You can rest assured that on this site nobody, not even the Administrators can read your PM's.

I don't want to bring old problems here, just wanted to clear the air.

You said it my brother
A forum is for discussion, a discussion is bound to have a disagreement, if there is no disagreements, there is no forum. If everyone agrees with everything that anyone has to say, boredom sets in, once boredom sets in people will start to look elsewhere for stimulating conversation and opposing viewpoints.
I admire you for putting both Govt. and religion available to be discussed here, although I doubt I will be participating much in either arena. Its just nice to know it's available.

But I was hoping the story wouldn't come here.

Esther wrote:But I was hoping the story wouldn't come here.

Well it sure can't go there, can it? If you think it is detrimental to this forum I will delete this entire thread as I do trust your judgement Esther.

I don't know Bullfrog what is best but if I were new or from that other forum, UM, I think they get tired of this stuff when it doesn't involve them. You can easily edit what you said to assure folks their private stuff is exactly that and mention that on SOME forums the messages are read. And they don't need to know what we experienced or where. I have told about a half dozen people, the ones who have commented or asked but leave it at that. I am saying I have broad shoulders in more than one way and refuse to wallow. I hosed myself off and moved on.

Done Esther, I edited it to include just the necessary information. Please check your email and PM me.

Thanks